Showing posts with label sensuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sensuality. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 29

You and your sensual well-being



When you mention the word erotic, the first thing thatspring to mind is that it is something to do with sex. So, it certainly doeshave a great deal to do with it, but there are many other aspects of sensualitythat do not require a sexual experience.

To understand yourown sensual nature can be of use not just for your sexual experiences, but alsoin understanding yourself as a human being.

 It is important toremember that making discoveries about your sensual and erotic feelings are foryour benefit and while these discoveries may serve you well in situationsinvolving love your focus should not be on another person when still trying toget to know yourself.

Try to keep an open mind and do not shy away from your innermost thoughts and feelings; remember that you are not trying to impress anyone,just figure out a little more about who you are.

 Once you feel relaxedand ready to devote some time to self-exploration it is time to find out whatyou feel about sensuality from a mental perspective.

 After taking the timeto think over what this idea means to you currently you may find out a greatdeal more than you expected to. While a feeling of sensuality often has a lotto do with touch and the physical it often begins first in the mind. Sights,sounds and smells all play an enormous part in how you feel. The wrongsurrounding can destroy this mood regardless of how interested you in apartner, or simply having fun.

Allow your body to relax and simply free float through ideasthat come to you when focusing on sensuality. Practice this until you findcertain ideas, images, situation, or fantasies, which allow you to openly feelsensual and maintain that feeling.

By making use of your freely sensual mind you can improveyour skills at flirting and have an excellent time building toward the physicalas you go.

Each individual will find many different forms of touch thatmay have previously gone unnoticed and have now been transformed into spotsthat could easily create an erotic feeling over the entire body. Knowing whereand how you like to be touched is an essential for the health of your physicalhappiness.

Practicing this transformation and understanding how tosummon this feeling will can help to improve your life in many ways. Becausesensuality touches so many different areas of life, the lack of understandingor fear of such a feeling can cause great unhappiness and insecurity.

Allow yourself the freedom of being open to such feelingsand find the strength to unite the mind, body, and perhaps even soul in yoursensual well-being.

Wednesday, April 27

The sensual language of make-up


What a joy to be in love! When the heart overflows with love, her eyes shining, his face lights up. We become more beautiful, more delicate.

And we want to tell all of our love. Especially him. Why not reinforce and highlight our state of mind with the choice of make-up? Why not accentuate the eyes with a touch of sensuality as the tricks of the moment? And why not send messages with full lips soft and shiny?


Tuesday, April 19

Romantic Fantasies


Every person has their own romantic fantasies. Each fantasy has its own unique feeling, tone, and theme.

Some people have simple fantasies, yet others elaborate their romantic dreams with many sophisticated details. There is one thing in common with all romantic fantasies, however. It is desiring something that you don't already have in your life and that can only come true with a romantic partner.

Fantasies provide peace of mind and escape from the real world, and romantic fantasies in particular serve as a vehicle to a more satisfying sex life. Fantasies put people in touch with their sensuality, while also allowing them to become more comfortable with themselves and their relationships.

Women tend to be more sensual and romantic, relying on soft lighting, scented candles and slow music to set the mood. When most women fantasize about making love, it is often with a focus on their current partner (though sometimes someone unattainable, famous, etc. may creep into the mind's eye.) Location and setting play important roles as well, and the emotional connection is critical in most cases.

For some women, the ultimate fantasy is just spending time with the one they love. As one woman revealed, "I have the occasional naughty fantasies, but more than anything, I think about being curled up in his arms."

Sharing Your Fantasy

Very often, both partners in a relationship have fantasies they would like to share with their partners, but they don't reveal them. Fantasies evoke strong emotions and revealing them can make you vulnerable. Therefore, fantasies are usually kept private. To present your secret thoughts to someone can take courage.

It is easy and comfortable to assume that revealing your fantasies will not be appreciated by your partner. Although no one can read another person's mind, most people think their partner would not want to live out a fantasy with them.

Tell Your Partner What You Want

How to tell your partner about your romantic fantasies?

All you have to do is be clear about what you want and then tell your partner. Yes, this may sound easier to do than it is, but what do you have to lose? If you have someone who loves you, that person may be more eager to make you happy than you think.

Try This:  Write your fantasy down in one sentence. Have your partner write his or her fantasy down as well.

Now that you have written it down, you should be clear about what you want.
The next step is to share the fantasy with your partner. Go ahead, you will be surprised who easily fantasies can become reality!

Remember, your sensual and romantic thoughts can become reality if you share them with your love. Enjoy!

Thursday, March 10

What is sensuality?


Look in the dictionary for a definition of sensuality, depending upon the version and maker, varying definitions exist. Ask any person to define sensuality, and still more interpretations. Sensuality in its truest form is not to be confused with SEX. Sensuality means to be aroused by things of beauty, luxury and refinement, to be aware of and explore the world, life and love with all the senses. To be sensual is to be aware of and appreciate the natural, ecstasy that can be found in the sensuous, passionate world of feeling, inhabited by poets, artists, song writers and dreamers. Being sensual brings to us a life felt through our senses, seen only in the world of spirit.

Living a sensuous life, your world is enhanced by awareness. Appreciation and acceptance for who and what you are. A passion for life and love. Sensuality is a world that virtually weaves itself in a rich tapestry of beauty, of intense arousal and passion where even the simplest touch of a finger drawn lightly across the bare skin of a lover’s back in the early morning hour causes the lover to awaken filled with a heightened awareness. In their heightened states, the colors of the world are painted in more radiant, vivid hues; eyes are deeper, skin is creamier as the sun filtering through the drapes dances off their bodies. An exquisite luxurious feeling. Joy. That exultation of spirit, pleasure, passion and delight is yours. Joy leads to ecstasy.

Keep ecstasy in our lives and lovers will go through their days filled with joy - that never ending supply of excitement of the spirit that brightens their lives and fills them with delight. Feeling and being are the sublime part of a man and brings warmth, gentleness, relatedness and perception to sensuality. It is the divine feminine nature existing in both a man and a woman. Feeling is the art of having a value structure and a sense of meaning and belonging. Feeling is the part that brings love to us. Romance in a relationship allows us to touch the soul of a lover. Romance and ecstasy mixed, allows us to touch the heart and soul.

What person doesn’t love Love? It is the essence of life. Love. Such a wonderful, essential part of our beings. Without it we would wither and die. Romance, ecstasy, passion and ultimately, love, are so powerful a human drive they have kindled wars, created works of art, consoled the dying, driven kings to insanity and bankrupted nations. Love is the most important aspect of our lives, yet we spend our lives searching for it when a simple act of vulnerability toward our feeling nature will cause it to spring forward, catching us like a bird in flight.

It is that vital, intrinsic, pulse-beating passion within us, our feeling natures, sensuality, that gives us creativity and a sense of joy. Through our feelings we experience our purpose and the special, ecstatic moments in our lives. It is through our feelings that our lives are given meaning and worth. It is our romancing one another in loving, ecstatic ways that helps us to discover that we are ALL sensual beings.
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