If you are truly interested in improvingyour sex life, remember this: “Foreplay begins with taking out the garbagewithout being asked!” You must be willing to give your partner what she needson a practical and emotionally level. This means connecting with heremotionally outside of the bedroom, in ways that she needs. She needs to hearyou say, “I love you.” She needs to be appreciated; to hear that the houselooks great after she’s spent all day cleaning; to hear that she is stillbeautiful to you. She needs to see you “take the initiative” and share in theresponsibilities of the home, including the household chores. She needs you tonotice her new hairdo; to pick up the kids after soccer practice.
It is easy to couple with someoneemotionally for the time it takes to have sex. But what about foreplay? Whatabout making love? Foreplay isn't just removing clothing so that you can havesex. Foreplay is doing whatever your lover needs to feel ready to make love.Most often it has more to do with how she is treated outside the bedroom thaninside it.
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