Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Sunday, March 4

You are beautiful



You are beautiful – yes, you are, although beauty is morethan skin-deep. Beauty is unique grace and confidence, a shining light thatsparkles through the eyes and smile. It's not what you look like; it's what youproject.

Beauty is a subjective quality and a universal perfectbeauty is but an abstract concept.

Secretly, we all want to be beautiful and make the best ofourselves. We want to look more beautiful without losing the essence of whatmakes us uniquely attractive.

Perfect beauty is an elusive concept, but if you can feelgood about yourself by enhancing your looks, you may find more joy in your life.

Enjoy the beautiful you and Life!

Friday, February 10

Be Good to Yourself



Learn to be good to yourself, develop self-acceptance, self-trust,self-respect, and self-love.

Make a list of all your achievements and successes so far inyour life, believe in yourself, and know that you deserve the best. Go forevery opportunity, take risks, have powerful self-belief. Reward yourselffrequently and congratulate every achievement, no matter how big or small.

Be positive at all times and stay away from negative people.Negative people dilute your dreams and their negativity will rub off on you.

Recognise and respect your feelings and listen to your bodyand mind. Pay attention to your dreams – they are your subconscious messages.Trust your gut instincts.

Learn to say no and teach other people how to treat you. Ifyou let others treat you badly, they will carry on. Set boundaries, be assertive,and calm. Explain to people the behaviours and languages they use are no longeracceptable.

Relax and enjoy yourself and allow good things to enter yourlife. Be open to new ideas. Learn from every situation.

Be happy that you are doing your best. That is all you canever do. Do not set impossible standards. Ask for help or support if you needit.

Get rid of anything you have not worn, looked at or used inthe last 12 months.

Make time to switch off. Stop thinking about work when youare at home or home when you are at work. Focus on one task at time.

Take time to sit down and eat breakfast. Write a 'to do'list for that day. Do not worry. Worrying is wasted energy.

Have a warm bath with scented oils, candles, and soft music.Nourish your mind and body.

Get enough sleep and rest. Eat well and you will be moreactive, feel and look much better.

Every aspect of your life will become more manageable,happier and more fulfilled.

Monday, November 7

Put some romance into your relationship


Romance is a vital aspect of living and loving. It can takemany forms in a relationship, but it's important to try to maintain romanticfeeling throughout to help promote longevity and a happier relationship overall.

It doesn't take a great deal of effort to be romantic. Thesimple things in life can really make a difference to your partner, and canleave you both feeling happy with one another and the relationship.

Romance is just as vital an aspect of any relationship aslove and communication, and it can really define a successful relationship fromone destined for failure. As distinct from love, romance is more of a triviallyexpounded virtue, but one which is essential in creating a feeling of contentand satisfaction in any relationship. 

From a kiss on the cheek to an occasionalbunch of flowers, romance is an attribute that few of us naturally possess, butwith a little effort we can all bring to our relationships. There should neverbe any barrier to romance regardless of age or the length of the relationship,it is important for both partners to feel loved and wanted within the contextof that particular relationship, to promote a feeling of overall satisfactionand content.

Romance and romantic behaviour are more symbols of ourappreciation for the companionship and loyalty of our partner. These do nothave to be material gestures, and these can often be seen as attempts to 'buy'love. Rather, it is often more effective to show appreciation by acting in amanner that seems loving and caring towards your partner, whilst activelytrying to be extraordinarily nice in showing your appreciation. Although quitedifficult to express in words, even simple things like holding a door open orcarrying grocery bags can help add to the overall romantic appeal of your relationship.

Adding romance to a relationship doesn't have to be hardwork, and it can actually make things more enjoyable for a couple. By being alittle more considerate and introducing spontaneous and romantic gestures towardseach other, can rekindle the passion and fire within any relationship, leaving bothfeeling a lot happier about each other.

Wednesday, September 28

10 Ways to Improve Your Day in Just 5 Minutes


Five minutes. True, it's not a heck of a lot of time. Butit's just long enough for you to do one thing -- and maybe that one thing thatwill turn your day around.

In our busy 24/7 universe, it often seems like there's notenough time to do everything you want in a day. But take five and try these 10simple ways to lower stress and boost your mood and energy levels. They mayjust help you find the extra spark you need to meet the challenges of the day.

1. Make your bed. Starting off each day with this smallritual can help create a calm environment for you in your bedroom. GretchenRubin, author of The Happiness Project, writes that many people benefit frommaking this modest step part of their routines. By checking it off your to-dolist first thing, you've got one less thing to worry about for the rest of theday.

2. Pack a snack. Before you head out the door in themorning, go into the kitchen and grab a fruit (like a banana, apple or grapes)or a healthy snack (like unsalted nuts or low-fat cheese). This way, when acase of the munchies strikes later in the afternoon, you won't be reaching fora bag of chips or a candy bar from the vending machine out of convenience.Besides, you know what they say about an apple a day.

3. Clear your desk. You may not be able to overhaul yourcloset in five minutes, but you can manage to tidy your desk at work. Fromstray papers to scattered coffee mugs, clutter can make you lose focus and curbproductivity. Declutter your outer environment and you may feel lighter on theinside and more motivated to concentrate on the task at hand.

4. Pump up the music. Several studies have found thatlistening to music can help lower blood pressure, reduce stress, and boostmood. The right music has the power to change your attitude. So load up yourMP3 player and create a special playlist that will make you smile -- whetheryou're working or working out.
5. Sniff a lemon. For a quick de-stressing trick, turn to anunderrated sense -- your sense of smell. Japanese researchers found thatlinalool; a substance found in lemons, has anti-inflammatory properties and mayreduce the flight-or-fight stress response. Other scents like basil, juniper,and lavender have also been found to lower stress. 

6. Stretch. You don't have to be a yogi to benefit fromlight stretching. Lift your arms above your head at your desk. Or better yet,stretch your legs by walking outside. Stretching can help improve your circulationand flexibility, and may help ease the tight muscles that accompany stress.

7. Meditate. Try meditation and deep breathing to relax andturn your mind off. You don't need any special equipment to practicemeditation. Find a comfortable position in a chair or on the floor. Meditatingon a daily basis, even just for a few minutes, has been shown to fightdepression and ease stress.

8. Keep a gratitude diary. Take a minute every day to writedownseveral things you're thankful for, whether they're big or small things.It's easy to vent about weather, traffic, or job woes, but complaining bringsnegative energy along with it. Being thankful for what you have can make youappreciate all the positives in your life.

9. Turn off your electronics. Just becausewe live in a wiredworld doesn't mean you need to stay connected every minute of every single day.Staring at computer screens and electronics all day long can zap your energyand encourage inactivity. So log off youremail, phones, and Internet (yes,social networking web sites count, too). This is especially important to allowyou to unwind and relax before bed.

10. Prioritize. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed when you havemultiple tasks crowding your mind. Make a list and finish your most dreadedduties first to avoid the anxiety caused by procrastination. Make a list andcheck off each task as you complete it. At the end of the day, a list ofaccomplishments is a great visual reminder of how productive you were.

By Jennifer Soong


Wednesday, September 21

Find joy and passion in life



Finding something you love to do is a good start toincreasing the moments of joy in your life, and your passion for living.

Today's pace of life prevents too many people from findingwhat they love to do because they feel so tired. But when you give in to theurge to take photographs or make your own clothes or do woodworking, or becomea first-class baker, you're giving yourself a gift. It takes energy, but italso creates energy in the passion you find for a new activity.

You may or may not be able to change careers, but doingsomething you love even as a hobby brightens you up. You'll look forward togetting up in the morning, you'll feel more interested and alive, and otherpeople will be drawn to your energy. If schools really wanted to increase the qualityof kids' lives, there would be a place in the curriculum for finding things youlove to do and working at them, attaining a level of expertise that lets youexpress your creativity.

As adults, we can re-educate ourselves about joy and passionby skipping the night class in business management and studying sculptureinstead.

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