If someone has not already told you this,this is a state of mind rather than how one's body looks. We have tested thishypothesis with many couples. What we found is that physical appearance hadvery little to do with how a woman's partner felt about her. These women werehot in their mind and it came out in how they behaved and dressed. So what youneed to think about is how to change your thinking. How do you change your ownattitude towards your own body? You have to look at your own body and start tolove it. If you don't, then you will present a very insecure image to yourpartner and he will not like you either. Believe me, so many men write to usdaily telling us how attractive they find women like you. But men love only thosewomen that are confident and full of self-esteem. They are more interesting andmore fun to be around.
Here are some additional tips to feel goodabout your looks:
Startexercising regularly: It will not only tone up your body, you willfeel much better about yourself. You do not have to do anything special; justregular physical activity will be great for you considering that you are notoverweight.
Investin a new wardrobe: Shop for clothes that make youlook more lively and cheerful. Choose colors that go well with your skin andhair colour. Do not forget theaccessories.
Buyhigh-quality lingerie: Do not be too worried if itis too risqué. You will feel great when you wear it.
Spendmore time in front of the mirror: Dress up in your favouriteoutfits and admire your body in front of the mirror. Just because you havesmall front, it does not mean that you should not look at yourself in themirror. Notice, in particular, those assets of your body that stand out,whether it is your hair, eyes, or rear.
Read: Read inspirational books to develop your self-esteem.
Finally, smile. Smile for being awoman.