Showing posts with label attraction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label attraction. Show all posts

Sunday, October 23

Is Lovemaking The Only Way To Show Love?



Life after marriage is a little serious as responsibilitiesstart from the day one. During that time, couples cannot run behind the bushesand sing songs as that will not make their meal. Men need to get focus aboutcareer and women need to plan to be good homemakers. With this learningprocess, love is tightly wrapped in the heart as the couple feel that there isstill time to share feelings.

But life is too short and love needs to be a part so whatmay be the best to express it other than physical intimacy?. Now, the coupleare legally bond so lovemaking can be their daily routine.

With marriage both men and women are assured that they willbe for each other so love can happen any anytime. Physical attraction or changein moods need not be planned but can happen unknowingly. A hot scene on TV canturn the couple on, a silly cat fight can become a move to get close and thehousehold work can put a foundation to build a love network.

Love is in the air after marriage, any time can be the timeto make love. Plans can be changed or even get cancelled for the private time.Men tend to dress as less as possible when they are at home while womenwouldn't mind shelling out money for fancy night wears.

Women try to get tips from the experienced to spice theromance between them and their husband. They try preparing deliciousaphrodisiacs just to get their partner into mood. Women try to hint men bygiving them a head and body massage. They wear fragrant products to set themood for the day.

After marriage, love needs no materialistic things such asgreeting cards or sweets but learning lovemaking techniques (the new positions,tricks and ideas) is what couples expect. They even gift each other lingerie,flavored condoms or even viagra to get the utmost pleasure.

The 'married' always want lovemaking to be a way to presentlove and not to see it as a task. As long as the couple enjoy each other, thebonding is strong and the understanding levels are also high so lovemaking isindeed the best way to express love after marriage.

Acknowlegement: Oneindia.com

Monday, February 28

5 Conversation Tips


Women get bored of having the same conversations with men over and over again. If you can engage a woman with some different topics of conversation which you are able to maintain, you will stand out from the rest and generate attraction. To become an interesting conversationalist you just need to follow a few simple guidelines:
1. Avoid hairdresser conversation
Don't you just hate the meaningless kind of conversations which you have with your hairdresser, person in the post office queue, your aunt you hardly ever see? I like to call this kind of conversation 'conversation on rails'. It’s usually boring, shallow and has no specific direction. Whenever we meet new people they always ask "what do you do?", “where are you from?", "do you come here often?" and so on. We hate answering these questions over and over again, yet we continue to ask them to other people we meet. For attractive women who must get approached regularly, the issue is even greater. Women see these questions as time fillers which the men are not genuinely interested in knowing the answer to, so it is important to come up with some new material.
2. Don’t interview her
Women are often approached by men who immediately fire a series of questions at them, making them feel as though they’re appearing on a quiz show. The man’s only response to her answers is usually “oh really, so…”, showing that they are not actually interested and this stops deeper conversation from forming. This quickly becomes very tedious and any woman who puts up with it is either extremely attracted to you or just very polite! Avoid asking a series of gruelling questions, try asking one, make a connection on the point and then allow this to lead on to another. For advanced level skills, try to elicit the answer without even having to ask the boring question – make an assumption or guess about what she does, where she is from, or what food she likes. You get the same information but by doing this the conversation is more interesting for her.
3. Don’t state the obvious
If a girl has pretty eyes, she has probably heard it 500 times and doesn't need to be told. Find something more specific to her, preferably not about her appearance, or don't say anything at all. It is fine to give an obvious compliment with feeling when you are already together, but in the early stages, it is not what she wants as it comes across as being quite fake...
4. Have interesting answers to standard questions
There are certain questions and conversational paths that occur again and again for each person. Think about the questions you regularly get asked, and have a more interesting reply prepared in the back of your mind. If a conversation gets boring, even if it's on the girl’s part, she won't remember it was her fault, she will just know she is bored and this doesn’t give her a great impression!
5. Talk with passion
If you can talk with passion about the things you care about, it lures people in. If you enjoy something, let it show: be expressive, use visual and emotive language. People get caught up in it and start to feel good too. When they feel good, they will want to talk to you more.
Consider these points when engaging in conversation and you will be much more interesting, not just with women, but with everyone. Because most people don’t have these points in mind, they rerun the same game over and over, and its will be easy to stand out.
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